I've been there.
I started as a draftsman in a self-taught sheet metal company.
So believe me, I've experienced the problems =)
But by dint of perseverance, you achieve your goals, and each trade
to his little tricks to get around the small problems of Solidworks.
The logic of this software is as it is, necessarily the same as ours...
The number of times I tore my hair out, to understand why this or that function didn't want to work... The key is to know the limits of Solidworks, so that you don't waste your time trying impossible things.
In short, "It's by Solidworking that you become a Solidworker"^^
There's no reason why you can't do it.
I'll try to be as clear as possible.
I think that your problem with lengths comes from the fact that Soldiworks cannot cut the edge of a sheet metal at an angle and on your part, when you look down, the edges on the front are at an angle.
What I do know is that during a conversion, the parameters to be adjusted (the direction of the body, the bending radius according to the thickness of the sheet, the notching, etc.) are important to get to the part you want.
Personally, I avoid going through conversions, except in the rare cases where the client sends me a volume that is already drawn and a little complicated.
In general, I advise to reproduce the part identically directly with the sheet metal module.
All you have to do is follow the dimensions that the customer gives, on his sketch or plan and look for the easiest way to bend the sheet.
The least drops, multibodies, welding, etc.
For the offset value, I edit the
Folds on edge, and I put myself for example on the right plane, and I look by eye
It's a bit of a DIY, but like I said, that's not what I advise.
Here is an image that illustrates the converison of the edge at an angle and another joint that shows the bend functions.

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